Cafe Tempest – That’s Where I’m Unwinding

image - cafe_tempest_softcover_finalI’m pleased to welcome Barbara Bonfigli to Ascroft, eh? today. I recently received a review copy of her novel, Café Tempest.  The soft blue cover put me in a relaxed holiday mood, sending my thoughts to lounge on a Mediterranean beach. My mind refuses to leave it as I follow the adventures of the main character, Sarah – laughing and loving with her.

Barbara, will you introduce us to the excerpt from the book?

“Welcome to Pharos. Laugh and dance in the hammock—not the cradle—of Western civilization. I’ve been falling in love with Greece since I was old enough to drink retsina. But if Sarah hadn’t captured my imagination you’d never know how I feel about friendship, feta, and the abundance of grace that turns friends into lovers and fishermen into kings.”

From Chapter 19.

[Sarah, the novel’s main character, is an American theater producer spending several weeks on Pharos, a rustic idyllic Greek island. She’s accompanied by her friend Alexandra (Alex.) Theo, the island’s doctor and impresario, has asked Sarah to direct the islanders in their summer play. She picks Shakespeare’s The Tempest. Theo’s office is the site of the audition.]

 

We arrive at Theo’s office to find the doctor arranging cheese pies and taramosalata on a table under his open-heart poster.

            “Welcome, welcome.”

Hi Theo. Have I got the wrong night?”

He looks puzzled.

 “We’re having auditions tonight,” Alex says.

“I know!”

I’m about to say this isn’t a social event when I remember I’m in Greece.

“Thanks, Theo.”

The hopefuls begin to arrive. A lot of them—excited, nervous, hungry. Each one tries to strangle me while dropping an impassioned plea in my ear. Except for Stephanos, the chief of police, who drops a chocolate bar in my pocket. (Clearly he knows the criminal heart.) Theo produces a case of Sprite and starts pouring. The only no-show is Omiros, my translator.

“Theo, have you seen Omiros?”

“He drives Tino’s cab. After Tino he comes. I help you before.”

“But what if Tino’s in the play? Who’s going to drive his cab?”

“Oh, you can’t have Tino; he never loses the business.”

“Then why is he here?” Do you have to be Greek to follow this?

“Look around, Saraki. He will hate it to be left out.”

“Alex, let’s hand out the parts.”

The excitement increases. It’s a challenge to gossip drink eat and read at the same time.

“Good evening. I’m very happy to see you. I’ll call you in to read, one at a time. There are lots of you so please be patient.”

 

The butcher, the hairdresser, the ferry ticket seller, several cab drivers, the gorgeous sponge diver, the chief of police: one by one my heart sinks. In the beginning I look to Theo for guidance: the Pharos Players . . . was he kidding? But no, he seems enthralled. Whereas Alex can see that my spirit’s drifting back to London. And that I’m chewing on my nail.

            “I’ll get Priftis,” says Alex.

The butcher has taken off his bloody apron, which does nothing to disguise his profession. It’s not so much the blood under his nails as he rattles the script, as the bits of . . . what . . . entrails? in his lively beard. Which makes it hard to concentrate on his performance. But slowly his rich unbridled voice and infectious energy clear my brain and grip my imagination.

“We are such stuff as dreams are made on,” Priftis announces with a butcher’s unflinching certainty. “And our little life is rounded with a sleep.”

I can’t help picturing his massive cleaver separating a goat from its head.

“Thank you, Priftis, you’re our Prospero.” I jump up and grab his hand. “Please send in the chief of police.”

When Stephanos, the first prince of Naples to simultaneously pick his teeth and dig in his ear, finishes his soliloquy, we wonder why Prospero decides to spare his life.

“Thank you, Stephano. I’m afraid you aren’t right for the part.”

He glares at me from a rolling prairie of chins.

“The part isn’t right for you, actually. But I’ll find one that is. I do have one question. Would you have time to rehearse?”

“Malista”– of course.

“Well, that’s good. I’ll let you know.”

He winks at me and exits.

“Why did you ask him that?” says Theo.

“Because he’s the chief of police. Doesn’t that keep him busy?”

“Doing what?”

“Doing what . . . ,” I echo.

Thanks Barbara for the glimpse into life on Pharos. Now, let’s continue with a few questions about the novel and your writing life.

You use dashes of minute, arresting detail to describe the place and people of Pharos. Was it difficult to capture the essence of a Greek island (even a mythical one) and its people so succinctly?

Image - Barbara Bonfigli‘Succintly’ is always more difficult; that’s why there are so few great Haiku poets. But besides the challenge, it’s also great fun for a writer to capture a personality or place in just a few words.

Each of your characters has a distinct, memorable personality. Who was your favourite character to write?

No fair! I love them all, even Stephanos the pompous Chief of Police. I think of him every time I get into an elevator and am knocked over by some guy’s aftershave. The question is…who is your favorite character?

 Did you worry that friends and family might see themselves (or think they do) in your characters? If so, how did you overcome your inhibition and write the story you wanted to?

 I call it a ‘fictional memoir’. Because it is. Some of the characters are similar in many ways to people I know, but all of them are more than 50% fantasy, and none of them are caricatures.

Having said that, I do have a brother who has begun calling himself Stephen.

Were there any parts of the book (eg. a scene or character) that you found difficult to write?

Love scenes are the most challenging to write because it’s easy to

1) fall into romantic clichés, and

2) turn off a reader who, for any reason, doesn’t like your choice of mate. And it can be a high wire act to write on the very narrow edge that separates the seductive from the salacious.

You use lots of humour in your writing. Do you find humour easy to write? Is your writing style influenced by any particular author?

Humour is easy for me. I walk around seeing the absurd, the funny, the plainly hilarious in everyday life. My brain and my ear are naturally tuned to that. Not always a good thing; such as when a fly alights on a holy statue during a very somber church sermon. Every good writer I’ve read probably influenced my writing style but no particular one stands out. Though, I did cry when Gary Larson stopped turning in regular cartoons.

Do you have a writing regimen or do you write when the ideas flow?

No regimen. I once thought I’d imitate Thomas Mann and Marcel Proust, but I soon realized it was hopeless. For that you need a writing studio and plenty of household help. The moment I sit down to write ideas flow. The problem is sitting down to write. Life has so many distractions, some delicious, some harrowing, all calling out “Me First”!

Thanks for stopping by, Barbara. Since I’ve been enjoying the novel so much, I’m delighted to have hosted a stop on your tour. Now I’m off to find out how Sarah’s faring and how it all turns out. I’m glad I saved the last couple chapters – I’m not quite ready to leave the island yet. 

To learn about Barbara Bonfigli and Café Tempest, feel free to visit any of these sites.

Barbara Bonfigli’s website – www.cafetempest.com

Order Café Tempest directly from the publisher – http://www.tellmepress.com/pub_ct.php or from Amazon http://www.amazon.com/Café-Tempest-Adventures-Small-Island/dp/0981645313

To see the complete tour schedule visit http://virtualblogtour.blogspot.com/2009/05/cafe-tempest-by-barbara-bonfigli-summer.html

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Summer Reading Suggestion

Ever wish you could get away to a remote island? Brilliant sun, silky sand and image%20-%20cafe_tempest_softcover_final[1]refreshing water – I’ve been slipping away to such a place, every chance I get, the past couple weeks. I’m enjoying a fictional memoir, Café Tempest, by Barbara Bonfigli. Since I opened the book it’s kept me laughing and dreaming of moving to an island paradise.

The author describes this fictional island, Pharos, as “a small Greek island with no airport but plenty of means of escape. It’s a sparkling necklace of turquoise bays and sun-laced platias, where ice trays are still being test-marketed and donkeys have the right of way.”

Join me at Ascroft, eh? on Friday, 10th July when I will post an excerpt from the novel and the author, Barbara Bonfigli, will drop by to answer a few questions.

Hope you can join us on Friday!

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Canada Day

feuilI haven’t lived in Canada for almost two decades now but I always think of my native country on Canada Day each year. Since I’ve been away for so long, I’ve lost touch with the day to day happenings there and am not always up on current news – I often have to ask friends to remind me who the current prime minister is. But there are some things I will always remember.

Here’s just a few of the images of Canada that fill my mind:

Lounging in a Muskoka chair beside a lake, in cottage country, on a hot summer day

Skating on the rough, uneven ice of the makeshift rink in our local park

Rushing along muggy Toronto streets, the heat like a suffocating blanket and a busker’s raucous song hitting me as I battle along

Stepping onto the pristine fluffy blanket of my garden path after a fresh snowfall

Sitting on my friend’s porch listening to the clip clop of hooves as Mennonite buggies pass by on the country road

Watching a moose, taller than me, lumber past our car with barely a glance at us in Algonquin National Park

Sitting down to a Thanksgiving feast of turkey, stuffing, potatoes, brussels sprouts, carrots and gravy, followed by my grandmother’s homemade apple on a nippy October day

Riding on a Toronto streetcar, watching the second language on English street signs change from Chinese to Korean to Polish as I travel along the streetcar’s route

Eating pancakes smothered in blueberries and maple syrup on a Saturday morning at the Kitchener Farmer’s Market

Leaning on the smooth, wooden rail on the upper deck of the Centre Island ferry, watching Toronto’s skyscrapers recede and flat, quiet parkland approach

Stopping in mid-stride on my walk through the park when I spot a skunk shuffling along the moonlit path ahead of me

These images in my memory may not be exclusively Canadian but they evoke my homeland vividly for me.

HAPPY CANADA DAY!!!!

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Women Share Their Wisdom

Today the Women of Wisdom virtual book tour is visiting Ascroft, eh? I’d like to welcome them and I’m looking forward to hearing their ideas about unleashing women’s potential.  Let’s start with an excerpt from the book.

Have You Put Your Dreams On Hold? by Angeles Arrien

Each one of us has a great dream and a great calling. Many of us have put our dreams on the back burner. We say, “Someday when I have enough time, when I have enough money; then I’ll do what I really want to do, what has fire for me.” At this time there is such a wonderful opening in history, in evolution, if we will just come and take our place.

What I’ve found among many of the indigenous peoples of the world is that they know how important it is to bring our medicine and our dreams to this world. If we want the earth to get better we need to show up and take our place, not with our shrouds of insufficiency, but with our long tall bodies and our deep, deep roots. The warrior’s way or the leader’s way is to show up. And then I can pay attention to what has heart and meaning, which is the healer’s way. I can’t know what has heart or meaning until I choose to show up, until I choose to be present.

Among the shamanic traditions of the world, if you go to a shaman or a medicine person, and you are dispirited, disheartened, or depressed, many of them will ask you one of four questions: “When in your life did you stop singing? When in your life did you stop dancing? When in your life did you stop being enchanted by stories, and particularly your own life story? And when in your life did you stop being comforted by the sweet territory of silence?”

Wherever we stop singing, dancing, being enchanted by stories or deeply comforted by silence, we begin to experience soul loss. There’s not a culture in the world that does not have song, or dance, or story, or doesn’t recognize that in the sweet territory of silence we connect to the mystery in our contemplative and reflective practices.

I know I’m not at home when I’m in appeasement, weak-heartedness, seduction, drama or exaggeration. I know I’m not at home when I am playing the martyr or the victim and wanting someone else to be responsible for my life and therefore guilt induce others. I’m not at home when I’m controlling, because the opposite of control is trust.

I am at home when I have fire; when I am deeply connected to what has heart and meaning, the heart’s fire; when I’m seized by a vision that I want to manifest and bring to the sweet face of Mother Earth. I know I’m on fire when I’ve lost time through some creativity, and when I’ve experienced a moment of tender sweetness and intimacy in a relationship that has substance and depth. I know I’m on fire when I’ve connected to something numinous and extraordinarily beautiful that can only be found when trusting in an unshakable part of myself, in a sacred refuge that I can find in my deep interior.

WOWbookcoverABOUT THE BOOK:

Women of Wisdom: Empowering the Dreams and Spirit of Women

2008 Award winning finalist for Best New Non-Fiction from USA Book News
2009 Bronze award winner for Body-Mind-Spirit from Independent Publishers.

This is a unique book with inspiring stories, art and poetry combined with strong voices of best selling women authors and leaders in their fields. Throughout the book they share thought provoking ideas that explore the hidden potentials and gifts that reside in the depths of the feminine spirit. Women who are seeking for meaning in their lives will find this book a powerful tool to guide and inspire them.
For seventeen years women have been attending the Women of Wisdom gatherings to uncover and celebrate the power of feminine spirit. In this compilation of spiritual, academic, and artistic contributions from professionals and lay people, poetry mixes with history, visual art with the inner spirit, and the intellect with soulful longing, creating an inspiring kaleidoscope of feminine reverence. This book offers practical and moving guidance that speaks to the divine within us all.

Key aspects of the book:
      Thought provoking essays from some of the greatest women thinkers and writers of our time from the Women of Wisdom Conference.
      Exercises to explore the topics in each chapter gives the reader an experience of their own personal journey towards self-awareness.
      Personal stories sharing life changes from their WOW experience
      Women of Wisdom’s story and development of key aspects of the conference – art, music, ritual theater, and circle leadership.

The reader is taken on a journey through the conference with empowering presentations, workshops, ceremonies, art, poetry, stories, and circles.
Art and poetry displayed throughout the book add a visual element that moves the reader to experience the creative feminine. Many of the poems are songs from well-known musicians from the women’s music movement such as Holly Near, Rhiannon, Cris Williamson, Ferron and Libby Roderick.
Diversity of more than sixty contributors sharing their experience of the power of the feminine voice.

The ten key women presenters discuss many current problems facing women and our society today and offer words of hope and wisdom to help women tackle these problems that relate to their personal life.

Thank you for visiting Ascroft, eh? The excerpt from Women of Wisdom presents some thought provoking ideas. To wrap up, will you tell readers who would like to continue reading, how they can get your book and about your special offer this week?

WOW:  We invite you to go to this page – www.wisewomanpublishing.com/womenofwisdom.html – to access the order page and then go back to this page and enter your order confirmation code and your email address. That will take you to the sign up page for the Women of Wisdom enewsletter, once you join the WOW book group you will be sent an email with a link to the bonus gifts that are available to people who buy the book today. You can later opt out of being on the Women of Wisdom newsletter list if you choose.

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Refreshing Inspiration

Sorrento coast from Capri

Misty Sorrento coast from Capri

All writers need time to refresh their thoughts and recharge their batteries. Encountering new places and experiences stimulate these processes. I’m just back from a holiday in Italy and my mind is still whirring from my adventure.

In Sorrento I experienced life in a lively, warm town, scandiscovering pretty sunsets, wonderful architecture and hidden curiosities – plus the most trusting cat I’ve ever seen, having its afternoon nap in the middle of a busy sidewalk.

In Pompeii I stepped into an amazingly modern town, as it was almost two thousand years ago, and imagined myself in that world.

Pompeii

Pompeii

After a steep climb up Mount Vesuvius I was sobered to look into the mouth of a volcano that is still active, knowing what it had done to Pompeii.

The mountains and cliffs along the Amalfi Coast were awe inspiring – a frightening and spectacular place.

Capri’s physical beauty and elite society were both intriguing.

Naples

Naples

I had the chance to conquer my fear of heights (briefly) as I rode a chairlift to the island’s highest point. It was worth it – the view was breathtaking!

With all these images filling my mind, I’m ready to get back to writing.

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Who Are Women Of Wisdom?!

I’m always glad to learn about anything that benefits women so I’m pleased to host a visit from the Women of Wisdom virtual book tour on Thursday, 25th June.

The organisers of the tour say –

Women of Wisdom is a unique book with inspiring stories, art and poetry combined with strong voices of best selling women authors and leaders in their fields. More than sixty contributors share their experience of the power of the feminine voice. The ten key women presenters discuss many current problems facing women and our society today and offer words of hope and wisdom to help women tackle these problems that relate to their personal life. Throughout the book the contributors share thought provoking ideas that explore the hidden potentials and gifts that reside in the depths of the feminine spirit.”

Join me on Thursday to hear more about Women of Wisdom and read an excerpt from the book.

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What Are Whale Hunting Women?!

Today Barbara Weaver Smith is joining me. She’s answering a few questions I’ve asked WhaleHuntingWomen[1].v1her and sharing insights from her book, Whale Hunting Women. The title intrigued me – I always like unusual titles – so I had to find out a bit about the book.

Thanks for joining us, Barbara. Let’s get started on the questions, shall we?

D: What are whale hunting women?

B: Whale Hunting Women are women who do deals, women who aspire to do deals, and women who want to connect with other women to do bigger deals.  By “deals” I mean sales of goods or services, planning and implementing major community projects, raising money for important needs and opportunities, founding a business,

D: Are women small business owners and managers particularly suited to negotiating deals with larger companies? If so, why?

B: In my book, I have written about three key traits that women bring to negotiating big deals:  listening, alignment, and empathy.   Women are socialized to practice these traits and rewarded for doing so; I think they are also characteristics that we like to bring into our business world.  In a complex sale with a large company, you need to listen more than you talk in order to learn what the buyers are really looking for.  You need to figure out how best to align your deliverables with the buyers’ interests.  And you need to imagine yourself in their position in order to understand that they are fearful of making a mistake and it is your job to help overcome that fear.

D: What stops women small business owners and managers from pursuing deals with larger companies?

B: Two things:  one, lack of confidence; two, lack of knowledge.  The lack of confidence I call “the minnow mindset,” a reluctance to recognize that you are growing and gaining in capacity all the time—that it’s time to say “no” to things that are too small or not in your strategic direction so that you can develop the capability to do bigger things.  But when you are determined to gain the confidence, you still need to know in detail how large companies buy and how you should prepare for what we call a whale hunt.  It’s a disciplined, step-by-step process that is outlined in my book Whale Hunting: How to Land Big Sales and Transform Your Company (available through amazon.com) and expanded upon in Whale Hunting Women.

D: Can you give us an example of a successful whale hunting woman?

B: On my website (www.thewhalehunters.com) under the tab “success stories” are two current interviews with whale hunting women who have been especially successful—Margie Traylor, CEO of Sitewire Marketspace Solutions in Tempe, Arizona, and Elaine Ralls, President of AIR Marketing in Phoenix.  The  case studies reveal in detail what Margie and Elaine have learned about whale hunting and how they have applied these processes in their respective companies.

Outside of the more familiar business context, I’d offer the example of former Indy car racer Lyn St. James, (www.lynstjames.com) who is a speaker at many of our Whale Hunting Women events.  Lyn defines whale hunting as the systematic pursuit of the big sponsorships that a driver requires in order to finance her participation.  As a groundbreaker, one of the first women in racing and first to win Rookie of the Year at the Indy 500, Lyn found the search for big sponsors to be very difficult.  But after about 150 attempts to reach a major sponsor, she landed J. C. Penney’s.  So—determination, a systematic process of pursuit, a very strong case for support, and a lot of help from other members of her team (we call it the boat) were necessary before she was able to land that first whale.

D: Tell us about the whale hunting women network and how it might benefit a small business owner or manager.

B: The Whale Hunting Women Network is becoming a worldwide network of women who consider themselves whale hunters.  It includes annual Summit events in key cities, local chapters whose members learn how to hunt whales and coach each other on deals, a membership-based online community for continued dialog and exposure to new ideas, tools, and inspiration.  Benefits for a small business owner or manager include

  • explicit training on The Whale Hunters Process, delivered online and/or in local and regional live events
  • peer support, advice, and counsel from other Whale Hunting Women
  • deal coaching for specific big deals that she is hunting

Thanks for visiting and answering my questions, Barbara. I like your ideas about traits that can help close a business deal. I think I’ve gained some useful information from your answers.

Is there anything you’d like to say in closing, Barbara?

I invite your readers to explore these options and/or request more information at www.chapters.thewhalehunters.com

To learn about Whale Hunting Women & to order your copy today, visit http://cli.gs/WHWEbook

Thank you for visiting this post about me, Barbara Weaver Smith, and Whale Hunting Women.  Two people who comment during the tour will be entered a giveaway – post a comment on any post about the tour and you will be entered. The winners will win a three-volume audio set of Whale Hunters Wisdom. Volumes include I: Mind of a Hunter, II: The Hunt, and III: The Whale Hunting Culture ($90 value). Barbara Weaver Smith’s website – http://www.thewhalehunters.com

Barbara Weaver Smith’s blog – http://blog.thewhalehunters.com

Order your copy of Whale Hunting Women – http://cli.gs/WHWEbook

To see the tour schedule visit http://virtualblogtour.blogspot.com/2009/04/whale-hunting-with-barbara-weaver-smith.html

About Barbara Weaver Smith

Barbara-Smith-150[1]Barbara Weaver Smith, president and CEO of The Whale Hunters, is an author, consultant, speaker, and coach. Barbara held positions as an English professor, a college dean, and a nonprofit organization president before founding her first company in 1996. Informed by her leadership experiences in all economic sectors, Barbara’s mission is to support women to achieve exceptional growth in their companies and organizations by doing bigger deals with bigger customers and partners.

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What Are Whale Hunting Women?

What are whale hunting women? Drop by on Thursday, 11th June when Barbara Weaver Smith will talk about ‘breaking the minnow mindset’ and enabling women to do big deals in business and the community. She will be sharing insights from her book, Whale Hunting Women, and offering advice to small companies and organizations to transform and grow their businesses. If you are interested in improving your effectiveness in any industry stop by and hear what she has to say.

Hope you’ll drop by on Thursday!

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Amazon Reviews Rev Up My Day

I got a marvellous surprise this morning when I looked at the UK Amazon listing for Hitler and Mars Bars. There were 2 new reviews added during May. I always find it exciting to know that people have read my novel and enjoyed it enough to write a review!

Punk Kimono in London says “The more I read, the more I felt unable to put the book down: I had to see how things would turn out in the end.

I liked the gentle pace because although in some ways I felt the urge to rush on and see what would happen, I also enjoyed ‘looking at the scenery as I passed’. It made the journey very vivid and beautiful.”

Tula in Galicia says “The growth of the child, the path he takes is wonderfully described by the author and is a rich and necessary historical record, although it is a fictional one, of the magnifient humanitary action that some countries carried out to help those children to start a new life.”

 As I said, I’m glad these readers enjoyed Hitler and Mars Bars enough to review it – thanks for that! It’s such wonderful encouragement to get feedback from readers.

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Don’t Miss Hitler and Mars Bars On Authors Read Radio

Join me on Saturday, May 30th at 5pm BST (12 noon EST/9am Pacific) as I read from my novel, Hitler and Mars Bars, on the Authors Read radio show. Why not listen in for 15 minutes or so and find out what happens when a German boy, Erich, arrives at an Irish farm in the 1940s and meets the people who will be the closest thing to family that he’s ever known. Share the experiences of Erich, a small boy growing up in a strange land – he will capture your heart.

hitler-and-mars-bars1You can listen online to the show at: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/authorsread

If you miss the broadcast, you can catch the archived show at http://www.blogtalkradio.com/authorsread

 Hope you’ll be able to join me on Saturday!

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